I’ve deleted him from Facebook and we don’t share mutual friends so avoiding him should (hopefully) be easy.

Thanks. Currently planning a trip to visit my best friend and eat lots of pastries.

Thank you for the book recommendation, I’m open to all avenues to help work through this. And thanks for the hugs!

Thanks for your support, at least it’s over now and I can begin to move on.

I’m trying really hard not to blame myself. And thanks for the happy kitty!

Thank you. I plan on doing all those things. He says he always means these things when he says them but he just never follows through. Well, I guess he can just delude himself now...

I might need to read that. Part of the problem is that he really doesn’t see who he is and that what he does is bad. I’d like to understand the mindset better.

I will, thank you!

Haha, I wouldn’t do anything like that as it would just convince him that I’m the crazy one and he’s the victim which is exactly the narrative he’s trying to spin now. Tempting though.

You’re spot on. I feel embarrassed that HE’S leaving ME, and it does feel humiliating. If he doesn’t love me and want me back, what does that make me??? But I will be better in the long run, I do know that.

Thanks, your logic is just what I need right now. I’m trying to run with those positive thoughts.

Thank you!

Thank you!

She’s taking me out for Italian tonight, so binge-eating will definitely happen. Thank you.

Thanks, I’m so looking forward to the day when I think of him I feel nothing.

Thank you. I’m sure I’ll come out a better person. He on the other hand, I don’t have such hope for.

Thanks. It feels bad to have fallen for it but I know I’m neither the first nor the last to do so.

Thank you!

Thank you!

Thanks, at least now I will be aware of all the signs before it’s already too late.