Well, not to rain on your parade, but it'll never really get better. Yeah, for Civ V, there will probably come a day where doing this will be super easy to do for most computers. But then there'll just be Civ X, with 400 warring powers and even more calculations that slows the powerful computers of that day to a crawl.

That Kansas City Chiefs helmet?

THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE

Enabling Mother. Typically one parent is the narcissist and the second parent is the enabler.

Narcissistic and Enabling. Nfather, Emother, respectively. (Could be Nexhusband, or Esister, or whoever, etc...)

Usually it means "Enabling mother"

I'm guessing it means enabling.

I'm thinking it's "enabling mother", as in enabling the narcissistic father?

Enabler maybe?

I went with "Natural Parent" (aka birth parent), but then the "emother" totally lost me.

Probably enabler-mother. So the father's the narcissist and the mother is the one who lets him get away with his abuse.

I think it might be "enabling mother"? I am no where near certain on that, though.

I was wondering, too. Maybe "enabler mother"?

Enabler? That is, the father is the primary narcissist and the mother provides his narcissistic supply and silences dissent from the children.

The side of the subreddit has terms defined. But to answer your current question:

If you click the reddit link above, the sidebar on the right explains some of the abbreviations used on that subreddit. You're right that the N stands for "narcissist(ic)"; "E" stands for "enabler."

Enabler

I'm really glad I like my parents.

Is it just me or is Kim Jong-un looking chunkier than ever?

Walker, Ex's Anger.