+1 billion. This is the problem with this column!

I honestly don't know if it would help, but have you tried smoking pot at all? I had never gotten an orgasm via a partner until I started smoking. I don't need it at all now for that, it's like it it broke down a lot of barriers I had.

The pot is what did it for me, too! I never once had an orgasm from anyone but myself until I tried marijuana. That broke down a large amount of barriers for me and things started changing, then adding a partner I felt a true connection and deep comfort with broke through the rest.

Thank you fellow magical unicorn. A good PIV is more than enough to send me where I need to go, with bus fare for the ride home even.

Doesn't that go for pretty much any sex act though? Wrong pace or position or not being warmed up or in the mood or whatever makes anything boring and kind of meh.

A lot can't, that is correct. I just wanted to be silly, but I do recognize that every woman is veeeery different in regards to orgasm procedures and g-spots and all that.

Not saying you're at all wrong for not being into it, but I do want to pipe in and add that it isn't meant to take the place of the partner in such an instance. My husband and I use one on occasion for clitoral stimulation and it certainly doesn't take him out of the equation (in particular if he is the one…

Wait, are we not supposed to be able to? Do I have super powers? I need a costume... :D

I don't get how people are so adamant about telling a person how to feel about a situation. Isn't 'emasculating' something that is in the eye of the beholder, and isn't it kind of pathetic that someone's masculinity (or femininity, for that matter) can be so easily destroyed?

I am only going to address one thing here, because I am confused. What does drinking from a straw have to do with anything?

I have turquoise hair. I dress in odd patterns and wear bright colored clothing. I do these things because I enjoy them and I think they look awesome, they are for no one else but me.

EXACTLY! It would be so completely awful and that would bring me endless joy.

So if I came to you and told you I wanted your whole family dead, that your lifestyle sickens me and that I will light your pets on fire (I would never do any of those things, of course), it's okay right? As long as I say it very respectfully.

This is an AWESOME response. Way to go :D

'Extremist mindset'? By demanding equality for human beings? Really?

This has nothing to do with the thread but I LOVE your name! I wish Kenny G would make an album of GG Allin covers.

It seems you're hell bent on being snarky so I doubt this will be helpful, but I grew up in a household (hetero parents, before anyone pipes in) with a lot of pets and every one of them came to us in need with the exclusion of our first dog, which my father brought home for protection.

Someone with too big of a heart to turn away an animal in need?

I agree, especially with the gratuitous girl-on-girl action. I enjoy that sort of thing just fine, but it really should go both ways. Especially when we aaaaaalmost got a hot ass bit of loving between Renly and Loras.