I completely agree, but it's funny to frame this as "so much effort" to wear the same thing every day.

It's super cool that he did this, and for him it may have been effort, but tons of us men do this every single day because it's cheaper, takes almost no effort, and we can get away with it.

I've owned the same two…

I'm pretty sure it's a revenge/denigration thing. The one woman turned down their advances or in some way disrespected their greatness... so now they have to make her miserable and land her, so that they can turn the tables and dump her on her ass.

Yes, because everyone knows that guys with big egos don't give a shit when ugly or mediocre chicks turn down their advances...

The whole point is that the crazy thing you believe in isn't crazy to you. The majority of other people would find it crazy, but you're convinced it's absolute fact and completely rational.

I don't think anyone thinks they believe in crazy things, because if they thought they were crazy, they would stop believing.

But it's soooo hard!!! Not every woman a man wants to have sex with wants to have sex with the man, or at least not necessarily at the exact time and in the exact manner that the man wants. You just don't realize how hard that is.

*snark*

No big deal. I liked your theory. Your theory just makes people ignorant and naive, mine makes them purposefully shitty.

Naive and ignorant is a much easier thing to get over than purposefully shitty.

Now I've never been raped and have absolutely no clue how I'd react, but that's actually the point to me: People with no experience from rape deciding how someone who has been raped "should" act is disturbing. Obviously with our judicial system, people that weren't raped end up on juries having to decide whether the…

I can't speak for all groups of people by any means- but I know the groups I've ended up in have most definitely been ridiculously open discussing masturbation and sex. Now to qualify that, I was Navy, then a field technician, and now I work in STEM, so I've always worked in heavily male dominated fields/workplaces,…

Haha... no... I'm comfortable with who I am and have great friends across the spectrum. I'm quite sure the judgement wouldn't be sour, it just doesn't interest me. I agree with pretty much everything you say, except the "mansplainy" thing... as I think of this as a comfortable back and forth where two people are…

Yeah... I'm clear with the top and bottom thing ;), though most of my gay friends admit they're rather versatile. All of them have one they prefer, but for the right guy they'll switch it up. I also know of several tops that somehow manage to only date other tops, which obviously requires one or both men to try…

On a random side note, do you watch "Scandal"?

I've heard it described as a feminist show that shows an empowered woman- and I just don't see it. In just over 3 seasons, they've have 3 false rape accusations. They've only had 3 actual rapes, and none of the actual rapes resulted in the women pressing charges, but all…

You have a much more positive interpretation of hypocrisy and bigotry than I do.

I typically think of the bigotry of blaming others for everything as terribly hopeless- if your life sucks and it isn't your fault, you can't fix it. You have no control and you're stuck at the whim of everyone else- which to date hasn't…

Hahaha... I know you're being sarcastic... but I'm still going forward with this- a girl was an innocent sweetheart yesterday, and today she's a giant slut because she accused the star football player of raping her. I just... I just don't understand how people can turn on someone so quickly with no actual new…

Can always store it in the freezer between uses.

And as for the straight guy ass taboo thing- Most women don't like stuff up there, either. I realize it's more or less required to have gay sex, and if that's what you like, good for you, but I just can't think of my asshole as a specifically sexual thing. I don't even…

This is a group I'm glad I'm not familiar with. That's too complicated a group name for me to care to understand their arguments. They do have both exclusionary and radical in their names, which most definitely sends off warning alarms in my mind.

MRA crosses the religious spectrum, and every religion crosses the political spectrum.

That being said, the majority of fundamentalist religious people are also overtly sexist. Michele Bachmann is overtly anti-feminist- and although all anti-feminists don't necessarily declare themselves as MRA, they hold the same…

saltines with sardines, cheez whiz, and jalapeno peppers.

If you're gonna do it, do it right.

So detailed and eloquent. I'm torn. It seems like he's put a lot of thought into your pleasure maybe... or something... I have no idea.

Would we all clap?

OK... that viewing technique I can get down with. A bunch of idiots getting drunk and watching the side show...
I don't think I could cam alone with the weirdo- Very... umm... intimate.