7samurai
7Samurai
7samurai

So, what happens when two proponents of this garbage get together? A fission explosion?

I am happy to say these days I'm a lot quicker to call bullshit. 

You mentioned upthread you are in therapy. That implies to me that you are actively dealing with your trauma, which is something rare in men I have dated, and I want you to know that if you are going to make a $5000 investment in yourself and your ability to be a good partner to women, consider spending $5000 on some

Think about the type of clown who needs to use a strategy like that to try and trick women into hooking up with him.  Anyone with that little social and emotional awareness is going to screw up negging as well. 

This guy apparently is not familiar with the widely held belief that you can tell a lot about a person’s character by how they treat servers. Why the immediate assumption that women are flirting?  Maybe they are simply being nice, which they’re socialized to do from birth. Would he think it more normal if they were

If a man is running any kind of workshop on relationships or spirituality..don’t go. Just don’t. It’s always dicey.

You are an active participants in your interactions with women. If you find that your interactions with women are not satisfying, I wonder if you’ve considered the problem might lie somewhere other than with nearly every woman you go out with.  What is it that you think women owe you? If you think nearly every woman

So, I think your perception of what women “often” and “frequently” say is skewed. And those things you think women often or frequently saying, you are reading far too much into it. In any event, like all people, some women are interesting and engaging, some aren’t, some are interesting and engaging to some and others.

There is no set number of dates you should he getting. Stop looking at it like that. That is putting way too much pressure on yourself and you need to be thinking about quality over quantity anyway. Your biggest focus should be on trying to learn how to relax on dates so that your focus isnt “how am I going to turn

Oh my god. 

Some women are into seeing their guy get the attention of another woman. Women are as diverse in their motivations as men are. You would be surprised at the diversity of experiences women offer to men, both those that are healthy and those that aren't. I did not consider it my business to try to suss out exactly what

You start this post saying you never called a woman a tease and finish it saying that all women are teases for some desperate self esteem reason. 

Why should women not expect men they are to be in a romantic relationship with to entertain, charm, or otherwise impress them?

I saw the same from men when I worked as a bartender. What do you think makes it a gendered thing, other than wanting a reason to shit on women?

Maybe don’t think of women as a number!!!  Maybe try to look at yourself - reflect on your rejections and figure out what it is about YOU and also genuinely look at the women as humans, that you might be interested in knowing / dating / etc - try this? 

Both men and women ‘test’ each other to some degree to figure out what the person thinks, believes, is about.  Calm down. All women are not out to get you.  We are human beings, as you are.  Not video game conquests or a breed of evil fucking witches. 

As a woman I can confidently say that if I’m engaging in a conversation with someone other than my date, it’s simply a conversation. Not all conversations are flirtatious just because they’re between two hetero people. I’ve dated outgoing men, they chat with the bartender and it’s fine, I’m not thrown by men who are

Most definitely did not. The best day of the week was the one where he had a day off and I didn't. 

Women with men feel they can give you a compliment safely, because you will see they are with a man and won’t hit on them. Women alone or with other women who call out compliments (however G-rated) to strange men are risking their compliments being taken as an advance, and an angry response if they turn it down.

I’ve been married for almost 20 years, and a large part of the success of my marriage has been based on me taking road trips alone.