Yeah, see, this is the reason people should work on their entitlement issues because even if you somehow get a girlfriend/ boyfriend, those issues will rear their heads early in the relationship and scare your partner away. 

Lol, yes! I thought the same thing when I read his comment. If anything, that ought to work in his favor. 

I don’t think regular, decent guys lamenting their perpetual singleness or trying to do things to make themselves seem more attractive, whether superficially or in some deeper sense, should be conflated with “incels.”Incels are not simply lonely people who spew a little vitriol out of resentment. Incels subscribe to a…

No, you’re mis-describing people. Descriptions aim to understand what things or states of affairs actually *are* and you are not doing that. You’re getting it wrong and don’t seem to want to get it right. So, what’s happening here is you’d rather stay wrong so that you get to feel justified in being angry that women…

Whoa, slow down there. I’m the person you’re referring to. My point was simply that women have lots of other reasons for talking to waiters/ bartenders on dates than simply trying to make their date jealous. My dates talked to bartenders as well, probably for various reasons. I’m not sure why this “in fact. . . will…

Why do you keep generalizing certain traits or properties you’ve observed based on merely several, limited observations? If you acknowledge that women are human, then you should understand women are just as diverse in their behavior and intentions as men. When you say things like “I have to wonder how women see men,”…

I love this. In the past two years, I traveled to Madrid, Amsterdam, Montreal, and several parts of Germany. I did not bring my boyfriend. But I was very happy to see him every time I returned.

Wow, your interpretation of normal human behavior is bizarre. Flirting is fun to do- that’s why people do it. People in relationships will sometimes flirt with people who are not their partner and it doesn’t mean anything, again, because flirting is fun. It is weird to assume that just because someone flirts with you,…

If the intent is not to lower the other person’s self-esteem so that they don’t feel they can “do better”, then it’s not negging.  Most people in relationships or who are attracted to someone they are on a date with will kid around or jokingly tease the other person. That’s not negging. That’s flirting.

Yes, thank you. I’m a woman. Back when I used to go on dates, I would sometimes become hyper-chatty with the waiters and bartenders. However, it was because I was very nervous and the pressure of trying to impress my date with direct conversation at the point was too much for me to bear but I still wanted to show my…