ok, just keep tripling down. that’s fine. i’m done here because this is making me rage.

wow! insider insight? care to share how you know for a fact?

so?

oh wow you KNOW for a fact that she knew? how cool that you were on that set!!!!!

no. she wasn’t backing him. she was saying that she only knew him in a work capacity, and that he was great to her in that capacity. she did NOT say “well but we need to separate the man from the art!” she was just reinforcing her point of “i only know him when he was acting”

WOW AND YOU DIDN’T SAY ANYTHING?!?! YOU’RE COMPLICIT.

but you categorizing her response as “shit” and “crap” is essentially you calling her a liar. you know that, right? you’re calling a woman a liar when she said she didn’t see or know about the abuse happening.

right, she said she only knew him from their time filming, in which she found him to be an incredible craftsman. she didn’t say “oh but guys he’s such a good actor, let’s ignore him diddling teenagers”

oh fuck yes. this looks fun and twisted and i am HERE for it.

her “crap” response? she said she didn’t know. she said she didn’t know him. why do you automatically assume she’s lying?

STOP

why does her response matter, though? why are we holding her accountable and pressing her on the actions of a shitty man?

Lol k cuz I don’t want you anyway 

lol this is an excellent point. i know i have dodged 2 maaaaajor bullets from these men who couldn’t make up their damn minds!

uh, not at all? if you’d read the full thread you’d know my answers to all these questions. good try, tho.

totally. i’m all for bucking the norm! definitely didn’t mean to sound like i was pushing the 2.5 kid, married, white picket fence narrative on people.

you and i are actually very similar. i don’t want children (obvs since i’m considering getting my tubes tied). i’m less concerned with getting married, though i would like a stable life partner.

i certainly don’t disagree with you. i fully support “non-traditional” lifestyles (whatEVER that looks like for people). but if that’s what men want, they need to express that, instead of making a “traditional” choice and then fucking over their partners and children because they freak the fuck out after the fact.

i comment out of my own experiences with my male partners, as well as what i’ve seen my female hetero friends go through at the hands of their male partners. countless women i know have been hurt, cheated on, left, abandoned, etc. etc. etc. by men for seemingly no good reason. you’re right that there is no set…

why are the men (boys) so scared of everything? like seriously. why are they scared of growing older and committing to one partner? i don’t fucking get it.