This is not specific to my fella. Though it's a thing I go through with him regularly, I feel like I have this constant experience in every relationship, and others do, and I probably inspire this in some people.

I used to know this guy, we'll say his name is Ben. Ben was cool, he was liberal, he boycotted Walmart on principle, he was living in his car for a few months to try and see all 50 states. I met him during this period, we fooled around some, but I couldn't get a true wide-on because physically, he just didn't do it…