I was incredibly surprised. I’m barrel chested but not generously endowed at a 40E and it’s kind of cool to see such large band sizes

Yeah, idk either tbh. Lots of bi people are also attracted to nonbinary people, agender people, etc, so I’m not sure. When I was growing up, the popular idea was that pan people were “attracted to souls” but again, I’m not sure what that means

That would require positioning bisexuality as inherently trans exclusive, which is not the case with a ton of bisexual people. So I am pretty against that being the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality.

I think a lot of it depends on how you define bisexuality. Most of the bi people I know (including myself) use the “attraction to same gender and at least one other gender” definition of bi and I’m often told I’m “actually” pan. But if you use bisexual=men+women, there seems to be a much bigger difference. I’ve got no…

I mean, I remember when all of the above happened with Megan Fox.

Romantic Outlaws is fantastic!

I get that there’s a lot of push back against bisexuality (I get it, I am very bi), but I don’t really think that telling people they’re actually something they don’t identify as ever really changes their mind.

I mean, it depends on your definition of bisexuality. A lot of people consider attraction to 2 or more genders bisexuality, but that could also be pan or queer. There’s rarely one cute and dry definition of sexuality

My aunt sends me so much (very good, homemade) black raspberry jam that I’ve started using it in drinks. This is really close to my go to recipe, but it’s also great with Stoli Sticki instead of gin.

I would be horrified if anyone brought one of these to my house. One person’s edible bouquet is another person’s “oh god that’s so much expensive, shitty melon that I’ll feel guilty if I don’t eat”

I’m ok with eggs (now, it was a long process), but the thought of eating eggs for breakfast makes me feel ill. Admittedly, I wake up nauseated a lot of the time, but the smell of eggs cooking in the morning...blech.

Yeah, I make stock sometimes when I have the appropriate leftovers but that’s not often and I’m not going to buy extra things to make stock. Better than Bouillon is so cost effective and great.

That’s just how soju works. It’s tastes like basically nothing (especially mixed in tea) and has essentially no burn, so it really sneaks up on you.

I had to do a gluten free diet for a while (elimination diet to figure out what was making me ill—turns out its nightshades, coconut, and avocado) and I had absolutely no symptoms reintroducing gluten. I was also a strict vegetarian for almost a decade and had no issues reintroducing meat. So, I assume its probably…

Hmm, good to know that my nails are the one thing about me that passes for straight

I think that sometimes longer days (more sunlight) can do weird things to the brain. Its really hard to find anything about it though.

Fair warning, the Lincoln National Forest area is as far east as you can go in the state before it gets pretty darn conservative (and that’s pushing it), so you might have trouble with the whole religion and mythology thing. I have second cousins who went to school in Cloudcroft (the only real school in that area,…

I was born and raised in southern NM, so we get some of these guys and also those old fucks who want to retire somewhere sunny and cheap, defunding schools and putting up anti abortion billboards. I live in Abq now and the number of Europeans I’ve met who want to “become native” is really...something.

I mean, that is one possible reading. There’s also the “how messed up is it that women can’t choose their own lovers/husbands?” if you go with the older “Persinette” version

I would super not recommend letting a cat outside without supervision if there are any coyotes or birds of prey in your area. I’ve seen the remains of pet cats who were killed by coyotes and an owl and it is very upsetting