The author has been raped and killed? Or is that just her phobia? Or her victimhood by proxy? You like to have it both ways — men women like dirt, you hate them, you're the victim. Women treat men like dirt, those men hate you, you're the victim. Doesn't it get tiring to always be declaring yourselves the victim?

Lesson: The path the most independence is to make good choices (choices that at least have no negative impact on those around you/in your community/society). Failure to make good choices causes other people to step in and make choices for you. This is almost always true; until you are rich enough to insulate yourself…

Lesson or Skill: Learn how to make weekly schedules

Lesson or Skill: Effort doesn't guarantee success. You can't actually achieve everything you believe.

Erin Gloria Ryan, how much time in your life have you spent feeling rejected to the point of hatred? To the point of commiserating with those as sick and hate-filled as you? To the point that murder and suicide seems like a glorious way out?

I agree and didn't mean to insinuate that you had labeled them intentionally.

Yes, great. Drag the social outcasts into this that didn't have anything to do with any of this. Moral superiority already played a role in this shooting. How many more bodies need to pile up?