rubbersoulful
rubbersoulful
rubbersoulful

Has she physically threatened you? Do you fear for your safety if you do not have sex with her? Then how on earth is it remotely appropriate to ask this question on this article? Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you? Are you slow? Are you trolling?

Unless I've misunderstood completely and the senior in question has threatened you with gun violence should you refuse her invitation, your situation is not - at all - in the same vein as the 3rd instance this week of women being fired upon for refusing sex.

seriously? Fuck you. Fuck you very much! I go to after parties after closing time with dudes sometimes - just because I want to keep partying does not mean we will have sex and I have every right now to. Are you saying I deserve to be shot???

The answer to all your questions is NO.

Because I'm at work:

I'm calling straight up bullshit on your understanding of what click-bait actually is.

Acknowledging female biology is not by default TERFy or transmisogynist. Particularly when there is so much shame and misinformation surrounding the female body.

Sure, but the assholes who have guns have an extremely easy to express their assholery by wounding or killing someone, which makes them quite a bit scarier.

The last time I called the cops on some guy carrying a gun down the street, it turns out he had just killed a dude. So I will continue to call emergency police lines if I see people out in public with their guns. IDGAF if it is a legal right. You can explain that to law enforcement.

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH AMERICA?

Are you being deliberately provocative, or are you just stupid?

Some kind of stupid point about if women ever express themselves sexually they immediately forfeit all agency permanently.

Yes, it was unnecessary. Yes, I'm fine with it. Maybe it is awful, but I'm betting most women won't scrawl people's names on a rape list for kicks. Some might, though. But feeling something was justifiable and seeing it as black or white, good or bad are two different things.

No, I'm saying that this statement:

You are completely ignoring that sometimes getting proof, getting a cop, filing charges and so on results in absolutely no justice. The legal system constantly fails sexual assault victims.

Clearly the people contributing to these lists feel/know that this is the only way to get attention to their assaults. People who want justice don't go immediately to scribbling lists on a wall. Suggestions that these women "just go get a rape kit as proof to bring to the police" are inane and show an astounding

OMG I can't believe it is SO easy! How has no one else in the world EVER thought of that?!

That's a very helpful list of "tips"! No one has ever thought of those before! Convenient that you're ignoring all the things that discourage people from doing them. I'm not saying putting a list on a bathroom door is the answer, but simply telling people who have been assaulted to do x, y, and z without addressing

Any time that a person does not consent to sex and someone else proceeds it is rape.