It wasn’t in any way a lash out at you. it was merely a “fuck I cant believe someone would be so flip about the subject matter”. It was a show of support and a “go get em” for you. Fuck the original commenter, I was trying to show some solidarity behind your sentiment.

And you’re not the only person that has ever had to white knuckle waiting for an AIDS test to come back. They do the same thing with minors/children so perhaps you can imagine how tough that is.

It really is a shame that you had to respond to a comment clearly from some dickhead trying out their “edgy” twitter comedy.

Marcus Whiley, and others I have heard, have described it as a life without the backpack of burden. People of color have this large backpack they must carry around full of bricks. Historic bricks, current bricks, bricks that are lies and bricks that have been placed in our bag by White Hate terrorists. The burden of…

I thought i was alone!!!! I left a comment a second ago about how this could be one of those BBC Hotwife/cuckold scenarios where one partner was int it way more than the other. So glad I’m not alone.

Is our question whether or not this started as something like BBC Hotwife and cuckold situations. And the husband had second thoughts, but the wife was all about it?

Here is a resource for black owned businesses. It’s a little light on LA, but for other parts of the country it’s pretty good.

You are right finding black businesses is a bit difficult to find. I actually think that supporting Latino businesses fits under this. Especially businesses run by Latino women. Much like our amazing black women, women in the Latino community have been the backbones and the engines, and yet often the overlooked and…

Holy shit I never realized it was so damn expensive. I live in Cali, and got my card for i think 80 bucks after a 5 minute FaceTime chat with a doctor through an APP. A bunch of us in the office did it at lunch. I hope you get the legalization too.

Country Mac, dismissed the comment I made in order to save face so I’m gonna leave this with you.

Ah the resident bigot should have done more research.

It’s not stupid. That isn’t a word I would have associated with you based on your comments. It’s actually kind of interesting. How people imagined the world looking when the book came out 55 years ago. Then how you imagined the world to look like when you read it twenty years ago. And then to see what this will look…

I believe, and it has been practiced at my gatherings, that the cooks get the edges hands down. Then the older guests, if they choose. Oh and New moms. I say this because no matter what, new moms with baby (newborn to 2 and a half), are royalty. And they wont even touch and or barely see their baby until they are…

Ive never tried that but as Sally says, hat would be amazing. Al5hough I will add that you are gonna want to do a regular pan as well, cause the center of good mac and cheese is always, always welcome.

Childrens mac and cheese is the only time it can be stovetop. Mac and cheese for adults must be baked, because like you sad that crisp edge and crisp corner are prized pieces. I would say usually reserved for the cooks, who wont eat until everyone has had seconds, or the oldest guests who have limited gatherings. Oh…

Ok, I can add a little bit of knowledge. That white sauce, was probably a béchamel. Which is a white roux and milk. flour cooked in butter, but not browned and then add milk. Its the base for white gravy etc. The béchamel is teh first layer of really any good mack and cheese. Now it may to be called that in our…

I do not see you as a misogynist. Thats not a term that I think should be thrown around lightly. It does feel as if there are certain professions that bother you deeply, and I am assuming that has to do with events or things in your past. And that’s okay, I am just on a different side based on things that happened in…

You are extremely well read, very educated and your writig ability some of the best one read recently. You have a particular disgust for women who you view as selling their body, and that’s probably has deeper roots into your background. I get it, its not going to change. So i think it’s clear we should stop.

I get it. Historically Disney and Hollywood dont have a good track record. I just want people who enjoys this book so much, and hold this book so dead, to the director and writer a chance. It’s hard, because in the trailer they are trying to show what they think will appeal to the most people. So they go big. I think…