perrydowning
Perry Downing
perrydowning

Yes, from the perspective of a victim who has been brainwashed into thinking rape is ok. You have no excuse.

Her husband has stated that he has sex with her without her consent. She has stated that her husband has sex with her without her consent.

Relenting to someones advances in the end isn't consent, it's coercion. If you are "overbearing" in the matter of trying to obtain consent that isn't consent, it's coercion.

To force, compel, coerce, or badger someone until they give you sex is rape

Asking again and again and forcing someone to give in is rape

If you see her extended quotes from the book, she's made it clear that there is hell to pay from him emotionally (and maybe physically) if she doesn't oblige his daily sex expectations - so she's been basically brainwashed out of the whole concept of "consent" - she has no choice, in her mind. It's just sick.

Boom. This right here. Most of my initial experience in trying to meet with girls was very hindered by what I assumed were qualities I was supposed to have based upon what guys thought were critical. These were qualities I lacked, so I simply didn't try. Frankly, I'm glad I didn't. Those 'qualities' would have made me

Generally, the best thing any man should assume is that unless it's 'yes,' it's always gonna be 'no.' Makes things real simple.

But isn't that the best kind?

I can't imagine why all the women aren't just falling on your dick with gusto

... your hand?
You can certainly blow a load without the aid of another person. I think there is actually a whole industry devoted to it.

The parts where he says, "She fights it. She fights it, but I always win."

Where his wife fought off his advances but he had sex with her regardless.

Why would you want to have sex with someone who you are pestering into having sex with you? Honest question.
Asking multiple times might seem innocuous, but that would just bother the hell out of me if my boyfriend were to do it. If I didn't jump on your first offer, then that means I am not in the mood. We have

No. Asking isn't rape. Asking 3x isn't rape. Having sex without consent is rape. It's not that difficult.

You're right, there is no universal rule on how to approach women. That's why it's really important to pay attention to the body language of each one. If you smile a one, and she half-smiles and turns away, leave her alone. If she turns to you and looks engaged, keep going. There really aren't a lot of women who act

And THIS, once again, is why boys need to be taught from a young age what rape is.

Exactly. I hate the whole "No means No" slogan. There are a lot of cases where women are too threatened to say no.

I like the term "enthusiastic consent"

And THIS, once again, is why boys need to be taught from a young age what rape is. Don't tell girls how to dress, or act, or walk, or whatever. Tell boys that unless you get a lucid and enthusiastic "yes", it is rape.