The blind leading the OH HAI MARK

Racially problematic.

No, I think that was a pretty measured response given that this video SHITS ALL OVER MY ENTIRE LIFE AND EVERYTHING I KNOW ABOUT THE WORLD AND BEING HAPPY.

This movie is cheesy as all hell BUT SHUT THE HELL UP, I LOVE IT BECAUSE RYAN AND RACHEL'S LOVE IS REAL, SO REAL, AND IT MAKES ME CRY FOR PAST LOVES LOST!

Hollywood is literally ruled by the libidos of all the studio heads. It comes down to who they would or wouldn't want to fuck. It's a great argument for just reading a book instead.

I get flak for doing this. I don't much care if people think it's harsh; after a certain amount of destructive behavior, I have to prioritize myself. There are friends from whom I've distanced myself because I recognized my emotional investment in their problems didn't extend beyond, "You need help from a…

Not selfish! The first time I had to cut someone out of my life I was 12. And it was the father I'd had since I was 2. And I was forced to do it face to face. For people that have to do this shit early in life it's a lot easier when it's "just" a friend. You had to make a hard decision early, and you survived. The…

I think one of the (many) problems with the emphasis society places on romantic love over other kinds of love is that is cheapens the loss of those other kinds of love. We expect people to miss their ex's, even when the break-up was the right thing to do. We an understand why women have a hard time leaving an abusive…

I just cut my best friend out of my life last week. Well, I tried to talk to her about some shit and left the door open for friendship, but she was so interested in being the aggrieved party that she isn't interested in being friends if I was going to call her out on something. Her reaction was what I expected and…

I agree. Once I've made up my mind about cutting someone out the decision is final. And unfortunately I know how you feel about discovering your best friend is awful...mine ended up being such a horrible person I have no idea how I was able to maintain a relationship with her for so long.

I cut my best friend out of my life, I did a horrible thing and froze her out, too. I thought of her daily, missed her jokes, missed the fact that this was someone that knew every single major aspect of my life for so long. I often felt like a part of my history died when I cut her out. Twenty plus years, just gone.

Same here. By the time I've made the decision to cut someone off they've done enough truly horrible things that I'd be crazy to second-guess the decision or feel bad about it.

Stop the presses! We have an expert here gals!

If there's two lessons we don't stress enough it's that you can't make someone love you and that you cannot be obligated to love someone else.

I know this may sound harsh, but I've cut multiple people out of my life, and I don't feel overly guilty about it. I may be in a unique situation, as I had to cut my father out of my life pretty early on in my teenage years, but doing that with a family member made me realize that in order to keep myself healthy, I…

I'm exactly in that place right now. I'm very unhappy with my life in a few different ways and talking about it with my friends makes me feel negative and whiney, so I've been isolating myself. I know it's not "healthy" to be isolated but it's so much better than calling friends up and being all "wah my life sucks!"…

I have a friend who pulls away from me whenever something really difficult is happening in her life. It took me years to realize that she does this because talking about it makes it even more painful than simply dealing with it on her own.

Me too! Clearly still beautiful women with above-average looks, but also the kind of beautiful women I might know in real life, as opposed to the intimidating red-carpet beautiful which just seems unreal.

And the world spins madly on...

I want it.