I literally got approved for an FHA home loan yesterday. Applied with two different lenders to compare rates. Both saw that my loans were shown as deferred, but were aware of the automatic deferment and just asked me to document my actual monthly payment that will resume in October for the purpose of calculating my… Read more

Thanks! I actually just needed the link to the subreddit - since I am not (or no longer) a member when I went to the link it blocked me from accessing the subreddit but had a link to message the mods. 

How does one send a mod mail?

It seems to have kciked me out too!

I love my soda stream! I exchange my canisters at Bed Bath and Beyond, with the incessant 20% off coupons they send I probably spend about $35 for three canisters every three months or so. I drink a liter or two of water a day. It definitely paid for itself with what I saved on buying bottled seltzer! Read more

Yay! I hope you love them.

Oh yeah, I do this too.

Check in online at the earliest moment possible - either 24 or 48 hours pre flight, depending on the airline (I think United is 24 but you should check), and then you should be able to choose good seats.

I always wear Born boots. I can almost always wear them right out of the box and they have great arch support. My current favorite pair is the Kerri but if that isn’t flat enough for you, they likely have totally flat options too. I have two pairs of flat Born boots from previous seasons that are great. Read more

Age isn’t an excuse. There are bisexual people of their generation too.

from one bisexual to another: Read more

I also have problem feet and a standing desk didn’t work for me, even with one of those special pads underfoot.

Second place goes to Adele’s bossa nova-style cover of Love Song by the Cure.

The ADA unfortunately favors people who need service animals over people who have allergies, no matter how severe the allergy is (source: I am allergic to dogs and have been in this situation). But AA fucked up - they could have offered the allergic passenger a voucher for taking a later flight, which would have been… Read more

I had to let go of the idea that my boobs needed to be separated and lifted. Without an underwire you can get one but not the other.

Be careful with racerbacks if you have big boobs- they give me neck and shoulder strain that causes migraines. Buy one and wear it a few times before you buy more. It may have to do with the shape of my boobs too; mine kind of point down and out and the racerback pulls them weirdly..

I refuse to wear underwires. The other ones I kind of like are Glamorise Magic Lift, but they’re a bit too full coverage for a tank top and not as soft as the Jockey ones. I haven’t tried the other styles, but the Jockey one also comes in a t-shirt bra and a full-cup.

Oh, I forgot your bonus question. These are the best bras in the world. Read more

IDK. I grew up working class and no one in my family would ask you about your nipples. Read more

What the fuck is wrong with people that they would comment on your nipples?