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"Yay" and "sitcom" are mutually exclusive.

If you're so inclined, you can "view or edit your browsing history" in your account settings, and clean up recommendations that way.

Mark is Jezebel's most hyperbolic of headline writers, which I have been told is a reflection of his ebullient personality. Personally I would've gone with "Perfectly Good Selfie Ruined by Engine Bolt".

Oh hell yes. This is my little corner of the comments section. Found it. Easier when they're not around, caring for another adult's emotional needs, simmering resentment- we could be the same person. I look forward to being divorced, and seriously question whether I want to get back into a marriage again.

I kicked out the no-good husband. He can keep pretending that working one fulltime job is all a grown man can handle and he can do it in his own messy house.

Please check out an Al-Anon meeting. These are for friends and family of alcoholics and I can promise you that you will meet people who can identify 100% with your fears. The bottom line is what you already know- you need to get out and you can't be responsible for him- but that would be a good place for support in

Huh. I was agnostic on EC before this but, having listened to this, am not a fan.

You've gotten a lot of good responses. Chiming in that you are not being at all unreasonable, and just to respond to one point that hasn't been touched on as much- I kept my name and my daughter has two last names, mine (her mother) being the last-last, following the general procedure in Latin American countries.

It's okay to change the nature of your friendship. Think about what boundaries you need in place in order to feel okay about your interactions, and explain them to your ex. If this is truly a friendship, he will understand. If he's really being a selfish tool and using you as free therapy or a one-sided support

Oh no. Massive, massive hugs. I'm so sorry.

So many new beginnings. So exciting! Hope everything falls into place nicely.

What about starting a meetup? Book club geared toward interests that would help screen for people you might gel with? Where I live there's a come-and-craft kind of meetup where everyone just brings whatever they're doing- could be fun if you're into that end of things.

Oh no, really? I remember this from you writing about it before and am sorry to hear that it stuck. The long and short of it is that this behavior means he has issues that you do not want to deal with. I know this is way easier said than done given how the feelings built up for you, but.. consider it a favor. If he

See if you can get D-Mannose from a health food store. It's marvelously effective for me- a sugar that's not absorbed by your body, but the bacteria like it and ride it on out with your pee.

Brava! This made me happy to read.

This is and always will be my favorite thing on the internet.

Came here just for this. A+.

The 99 iPhone proposal: Because 100 iPhones would just be over the top.

I don't think that applies here.

Was this article actually an elaborately crafted "let's get judgey" dogwhistle? Because if so you did AMAZING, it worked PERFECTLY.