Generally, yes, but I can see how some people would be unclear on that.

When referring to Conchita, use “she”. When referring to Tom, use “he”. He’s been emphatic in interviews that Conchita is a completely different person and a performance, and that he is cisgender himself.

My classes in Finland really wanted to discuss Conchita Wurst, it was right after she won Eurovision. We didn’t really talk about sexuality as much as how some people cultivated or imitated a character and it was important to keep the person and the character separate grammatically, haha. Based on the interviews and…

to be fair, I think that was back during the 2008 election when they were still remotely relevant and tried to grab hold of the ‘young republicans’ label for attention.

I know a lot of women who are bi, but if you asked them to do a pie chart, they’d prefer to be with a woman for non-reproductive purposes. The dating field is just full of too many mines. That said, I see a lot of bisexual women wind up together, which is always super cute to me.

I think it’s hard out there for bisexual women because a lot of lesbians don’t want us, and other bisexual women are often in relationships with men. My only advice is to never let a guy try to take advantage of your sexuality and inexperience with women. I’ve seen a lot of women who otherwise would have kept a…

I mean, I would want to clarify if I were her just so people didn’t get the wrong idea and laud me for my “bravery” in coming out, etc etc. Not out of shame.

Even with all its inconveniences, I wish my mother had stuck by some of her feminist beliefs. I know way back before I was born she was a radical hippie feminist, shacking up with her boyfriend and not shaving her legs, both of which made my grandmother cry. I don’t really know when it all changed, my dad was…

Yeah, that’s a good phrase for it, obviously after the shock and anger faded (it has helped some to defuse on Jez, since I don’t really talk about work projects with my friends til they run), I just feel kinda sad. She makes race the butt of the joke on the show a lot, I got the impression that the show didn’t require…

I know, that’s the first thing I told her when we got to the room — MOM THAT IS SO RACIST OMG NOW YOU’RE GONNA BE KNOWN AS THE ‘GHETTO LADY’ — and she laughed it off. I just wanted to clarify that she did not say it *because* of the race of the person she was talking to, which would have been 10x as horrifying.

I think sometimes you can grow into it, but the seed is planted at birth. You can’t just decide at 20 years old that you’re going to “become” an alpha, but I didn’t see that dichotomy start playing itself out until around puberty when I was teaching. I’m not sure where you’re getting the idea that it takes money to…

LOL no but I can totally see that being a guess.

Nah, haha, if someone guessed I’d be really surprised but I wouldn’t deny it. People are telling me that my story is “shit” because I won’t “name and shame” my own mother.

See, this is what I’m wondering. I’ve known guys who preferred thin women as far as who they wanted to marry, but it’s not like they find it so sexy that they can’t get enough. Who you choose to marry and who you REALLY want to fuck might be different things if you’re super concerned about what other people think.

If I saw my boyfriend falling all over himself over a woman who was exceptionally thin with a plain face, I don’t think he’d be my boyfriend for very long. Such a stupid thing to fetishize, especially if you’ve got something to lose.

I have an OKC profile for my domme stuff, and it amazes me the guys who A.) think they themselves are good looking enough to land this near-anorexic looking model trophy, and B.) think I’m stupid enough to still be interested when I’m the shameful secret fetish. Then again, I plan on having younger trophy boyfriends…

Because my mom may be a bitch, but I didn’t want people to get the impression she was a raging racist?

I’ve only gotten one or two direct responses, is there an ongoing list? There’s another girl my age who lives in the same region, we even attended the same college albeit at different times, our mothers are both famous writers so they correspond a lot. That might complicate the question, but it’s not Ann Rice.

Gracias, I do some web content stuff and it was my first and last time doing a celebrity interview. It’s just not in my wheelhouse, a “good” reporter would have goaded her some about it to make the interview meaty enough to run. I am not a good reporter in that sense, but I can write good about other stuff.

Did you see the response I posted to about 5 other people detailing my question? I was not asking about her dress. I was not asking what it’s like to be an Indian woman and be in the spotlight. I was not asking about her weight. I was not asking her to summarize her book for me. I asked if she had any pieces of advice…