“I know I’m going to feel bad when I come up with an excuse not to see him the next time he’s in town...” Read more
leoschmeo
leoschmeo
lol, “friend”. Read more
It’s mind boggling the way we have been socialized to just accept this kind of behavior! I know it’s illogical, and honestly it’s not his feelings I care about the most - it’s making a Thing or something to be talked about in our group. I don’t want sides, I just want to be left alone.
Like literally clapped at them? I’m imagining with great amusement how confused they must have been at that reaction.
Thank you! I really related to you commenting about feeling like you might have blown things out of proportion and questioning yourself. It’s awful that in moments like that we can’t even trust our own feelings.
This is one of the things I struggle with most. My now ex finally admitted to me that he found it annoying when I clapped back at catcallers, or even once a man who grabbed and slapped my ass on a public bus. Somehow an angry woman is more at fault than whoever made her angry in the first place.
I really understand how you feel. Throughout our lives we are constantly admonished not to say “no” to anyone. Even if being in someone presence isn’t safe, we are still told not to “make trouble” or “spoil anyone else’s fun.” This kind of socialization really makes it hard to avoid toxic people.
I have never been raped and stacked against many other women’s assault experiences, my own often seem trivial and unremarkable to even myself. Read more
I hate it when something like that happens so fast that I don’t have time to react or process what just happened. Read more
I hate that voice.
No to play Captain Obvious here, but that person who said you deserved getting your breast twisted for talking to the guy? That person is not your friend. Read more
I thought it sounded like “Heartbreaker” by Pat Benatar.
May I suggest breaking up the 3 way with Chip and Joanna and consider a relationship with Nicole Curtis? She does amazing things with old houses in Detroit and Minneapolis, drives a cool Chevy truck and loves dogs.
Kyle is most definitely petty and often awful in her own way, but she appears to be the righteous one in that relationship.
The thing about Kim is that I was always under the impression that beneath the substances there was a genuinely sweet, but woefully fragile person. Over the course of this season I’ve observed her show that she is awful to the bone, both drunk and sober. Her behavior was so inexcusable, her tactics so dirty, her… Read more
Because I have killed every green thing that has ever come into my apartment. Including an aloe plant. How, I do not know.
I’d never tell my friends if I grew weed. One: They’d never leave. Two: There’s always that one guy that tells the wrong person.
Outside grown pot isn’t low quality inherently, it’s that the massive size of operations that only work outside don’t get the TLC that an indoor operation can give. good luck getting some sativas to grow right indoors too.
Inside or outside? Inside takes up a huge amount of electricity and anyone who looks into your electricity usage can tell you’re growing. Outside grown pot is considered low quality....so there’s plenty of reasons people don’t.
Let's team up, I came from the wrong side of the tracks and know people in low places. Read more