I actually don't hate what Mayer tweeted and now I feel dirty and awful.

Her old look had so much going on that you didn't really focus on how gorgeous she really is. This look gives you a chance to be wowed by her face, and not big green hair, or neon orange lipstick.

Do you really want to risk destruction of the male reproductive system just to make it taste better? They already said it was dangerous to guts, what if it damages semen? Or boners? Won't someone please think of the boners??

Let's keep these experimental drug induced flavors focused on lady bits.

yeah, frankly dicks need more improving. And if nothing can be done for semen, how about junk sweat, couldnt we neutralize that a little?

Why isn't he hacking semen?? I'd like something in a root beer float flavor.

Me neither, but its like now she's even more gorgeous? And I'm not sure I would appreciate this new look as much without the preceding wild and wacky stuff.

I hear your point but in certain contexts such as this, I think people should be uncomfortable and thoughtful about the origins of their dating preferences. Some people may look at their preferences and find them to be the product of a variety of harmless factors. But preferences around certain optics—such as…

Agreed, we can't force ourselves to be attracted to anyone. But I think that as individuals (and myself as a white male), it's imperative to be anti-racist in our daily lives. Even just checking a box can reinforce racist stigmas if it publicly announces to the world you aren't attracted to certain races. I think the…

It's both!

The historical context is racism and colorism.

I would use the word racist, myself. Also, creepy.

Since dating is not a democracy, it's not racist to have a preference for a person of similar background. But... when people say stuff like "I don't find Asian men attractive," I have to wonder, did you really need to communicate that shit to me? It's called an inner life — that's where you put those thoughts you…

I mean...that's Mariah, right? Damn!

Oh, the cheating isn't the only problem; he's also really dumb. Sometimes I try to convince myself that he's just uneducated, not actually unintelligent, because he does seem to *want* to learn — and he really has learned at least some emotional depth and awareness of societal issues from me (for example, he used to…

Thank you so mucho or posting those thoughts. It absolutely infuriates me that I feel like I have to make dire compromises in my dating/sex life, because so many men are so absolutely untrustworthy and despicable. I keep going back and forth with my idiot ex who refuses to stop sleeping with other women, but doesn't…

The person that made that meme is nuts. I'd totally live there. I'd creep past the windows in a long, tatty Mrs. Havisham gown.

In a related story parents of singles hurling passive aggressive thinly veiled jibes bout lack of grandchildren have gone up 300%

That does help, actually. Personally, I've given up on sex and am strictly playing it 'by hand'. It's more consistently pleasing, and I don't have to put up with bullshit.

This is the only pseudo-uplifting thing I've read in relation to this story. I'll be glad when the hype calms down. If I have to see one more internet meme about beating or one more moron on my Facebook feed saying, "and she married him!!!" I'm going to lose it.