Calling women gold-diggers is textbook misogyny. It’s often found in those who also exhibit whorephobia, like you.

You have issues if you think sex is uniquely dirty and degrading. Many psychiatrists have written about this, I suggest you investigate.

Criticism of a woman’s sexual choices is always misogyny. If you call women gold-diggers, then you’re a misogynist or you have internalized misogyny. At least you own yours.

If you think what other women choose to do sexually is “gross,” you’re the one with the problem. It is none of your business what other women choose to do sexually.

In that case you just wildly misunderstand sex work. Sex workers give consent and they withhold it. Sex workers turn down clients and reserve the right to refuse to see men for any reason or no reason at all. They set their boundaries and they set prices for their time. All of this is sex workers dictating the terms…

No. If women grow up knowing that sex work is perfectly respectable and normal, they will know that their own sexual desires are perfectly respectable and normal. If women grow up thinking sex work is shameful, they will believe their own sexual desires must be shameful too.

No, you have it backwards. The imbalance in sex work is because of ingrained sex shame and wealth inequality. The answer is not to punish women who profit off of men, but to make women equal to men financially and in their ownership of their own sexuality. More women are paying sex workers today, and more men are sex…

Up next: FDA approves the Pullout Method App for Men.  

No. Bringing your boyfriend / girlfriend to a social event when someone only invited YOU is just rude. Did they invite you and your steady? Did they say “bring whoever!” Did the invite say “plus one”? No? Then it’s on you to ask whether you can bring Joey Joe Joe or not. Just because you feel like you’re attached at…

Yes, great movie. And Crazy Ex Girlfriend addresses the issue from the romance side. 

President Muffley defeats the soviets

Russian lawyer triumphs over cuck 

This question interests me. Sadly I think the answer is it does influence some of us, because too many people grow up without any useful education about sex or romance except what they see in movies. Things would be better if we taught kids that real sex is not like porn and romantic relationships are not like romcoms.…

People love watching porn too. Neither porn nor romcoms are harmful *unless* people start confusing these escapist fantasies for reality. Then they’re a problem.

Totally cool. Unless you’re looking for new intel, sex is not really all that interesting I’ll admit it. I’m someone who likes to talk about it just like I like to talk about other boring topics — like food! But I’m also very sensitive to those who don’t want to hear about it among my friends, or those who will get…

Oh yes I completely agree that NO WAY should sex ever be acceptable workplace discussion. Like you said, lots of people are very personal about it and have valid private feelings about sex that should never be invaded in the workplace. Fire Kimberly Guilfoyle and anyone acting like her for sure. :)

lol, that’s funny and I hear you. I see it a little differently. Instead of shitting, I see sex more like eating. We all eat food, there’s nothing special about it, it’s not particularly elevated, but we all talk about it anyway because it’s fun. I had the best cheesesteak last week! Oh man, the fries at this place…

It feels like prudishness that we don't talk about it with friends.  Or shame. 

You got it. Put me in the camp of “both marriage and romantic coupling are institutions on the way to becoming obsolete and will only really work for about one quarter of the poulation in industrialized modern societies.” Without all the insane social pressure to couple up, we’d still do it a little but much less than…

I’ve researched endlessly on the best way to say no and tried every method. Lots of people advise you to give indirect or “tactful” nos to avoid hurting people’s feelings. YMMV but I don’t think it makes any difference to how you’re perceived or how other people feel. A no is a no is a no and lots of people hate…