Lol by your logic, isn't denying the lived experience of a PoC a form of violence?
jitterbean
jitterbean
I did read your previous post. I just don’t believe you.
"exclusivity is tough when you think you can always find something better"
Am I the only person who finds the "online dating is sketchier" assumption totally freaking bizarre? Yes, there are crazy people on the internet. There are also crazy people in real life. So, you don't meet him online, you meet him at a bar. How is "random dude I just met tonight at a bar" or "barista from starbucks"…
Either way, dating is hard and it sucks and if you're not dating online than you're probably trying to meet someone at a bar/party/through a mutual friend/work and that can be limiting in some ways too. Dating is hard!
NOTHING should start before 10am, ever. School or work. Early mornings are for peasants.
"it makes me really sad too, because the whole thing just screams "am I cool now?!" In that just-one-of-the-boys-'cause-other-girls-are-dumb way. I spent my teens and most of my 20s being that person, and I was so miserable and sad and unhappy with myself. :|"
What's confusing? She's for feminism for Christian women like herself, not for those slut-bags who want to sleep with her man, get pregnant and than abort the baby when all she's trying to do is make a nice comfortable home that her bf can enjoy- not like that skanky bitch Selene from Kappa who's always in those…
I was just at a fancy country-club wedding that featured The Angriest Little Flower Girl. She stomped up the aisle with a scowl on her face, balling up the flower petals, crushing them in her fists and dashing them to the ground. After reaching the alter, she set down her basket with a sigh that could be heard above…
I was at a family dinner a few weeks ago and everything was fine, everyone getting along, chatting about mundanity. Then out of nowhere my 5 year old niece screetches at me, "I DON'T THINK YOU'RE EVER GETTING MARRIED!" I was like, what the eff? Now even the small children in the family are hassling me about this?! But…
Have Oxygen executives ever even watched Oxygen? Spoiler alert: the logo and slogan are not why we millennial women (or really many women of any generation) don't watch Oxygen. So why don't we watch it? Because it's terrible. It's about 99% derivative reality shows.
Talk about your fur world problems! Sheesh!
That... isn't what dead vampires turn into on TrueBlood?
Actually...I disagree. I've worked with mostly men over the years (I'm in an industry where less than 4% are women) and I've found that the older men who ONLY think much younger women are attractive are generally pretty fucked up. A woman their age would call them out on acting like a child or being an asshole so…
I think this is the biggest reason why many older men exclusively try to get with much younger women. They're naive, they don't know any better and they will put up with faaaaar more than older women. Older women aren't afraid to call bullshit and demand respect. As I get older, I find myself less willing to put up…
Oh, thank God I've got a gym membership! I only keep it so that Tom Junod will do me the great honor of being willing to put his penis inside me, despite my being the advanced, nay, decrepit age of fifteen years younger than him.
Yes, let's use math!
Oh, but if we could do that, what would we do with all our leftover self righteousness?
A negative generalization isn't necessarily a false one. And if white people weren't implicitly, and often explicitly, invested in a structure that privileges whiteness then said structure wouldn't continue. What you're doing is hegemonic. You're trying to control how people express the truth of racial…
This post is not about venting anger. It is a legitimate criticism of the privilege of color blindness. We are talking about a population who actually countenanced the "Is 'cracker' as bad as the N-word" discussion in the name of free speech and presenting more than one side—rather then viewing it as completely…