“...society wants us to just magically have smooth Barbie-boobs that stay up by themselves.”

I didn’t tumble over anything. The woman is a psycho and a murderer. That has nothing to do with her idiot husband making an idiotic choice.

Of course not. I didn’t blame him for killing the daughters. I blamed him for antagonizing a mentally ill, upset person brandishing a weapon.

Sure, if she did something blame-worthy. I wouldn’t blame her for something she didn’t do.

Who is talking about racism? The claim is that people are not allowed to live in certain neighborhoods according to their race, which is not true. You can’t argue that point - because it is ridiculous - so you are folding in a different topic and acting like it’s the same argument.

As far as gun manufacturing, though, I keep hearing more and more about 3D printing of guns. Cray

No, I’m serious. And that has been my stance on gun laws, too. Let it be legal. Let people buy and own them. But make it a freaking nightmare to get. The supply will decline, illegal ownership will decline, and people who are nuts or just lazy will not put in the effort to get one. Those who have them without the…

Probably so.

True; no way to know the context. It sounded like a taunt to me.

I joke with my fiance about this, actually. I hate wearing a bra outside of work and take it off the minute I get home. Sometimes we will go somewhere casual or run an errand and I won’t wear a bra, and he’ll point it out like “but I can see your nipples!” I’m like, hello, I’m pretty sure everyone already understands…

You do not live in a place where people are allowed to live in neighborhoods based on their race. No one in the United States does. Except maybe the Native Americans, which I don’t think is relevant to this discussion.

Doesn’t take an expert to know that taunting probably doesn’t help. And even if it did, a husband would definitely be an expert on what buttons to push with their wife.

Yep, I agree completely. Make it more difficult to get. So far it works well with everything else.

I just know that I’m really sorry for being born white, for scoring well on the SAT, for being involved in school, making decent grades, and attending my university of choice. I’m really sorry I’m such a worthless piece of garbage because my skin is white(ish). Hopefully everyone on here can like me anyway. And yes I…

Everyone on here is making judgement and opinions based on what they read in an article. Welcome to an internet forum. And no thanks on the fucking.

It wasn’t advice, it was a taunt. That’s not how you deescalate a dangerous situation with an upset and mentally ill person holding a gun and your kids in the room.

Of course. I blame him for being a dumbass that intentionally escalated the situation.

Yeah, it would have been fantastic. I’m sure he thought it would work, too. Because when you have a strained relationship with your spouse and they taunt you to do something in the heat of the argument the most likely result is that you’ll do what they want, right?

I think the begging and pleading came after the taunting.

Of course it does. I didn’t say it doesn’t. But to be the spouse of a mentally unstable person holding a gun and make the choice to taunt, rather than calm, them is freaking stupid. Of course it pales in comparison, and of course it isn’t illegal. That doesn’t mean he isn’t a moron and probably an asshole.