I was horrified to hear yet another story like this on the news last week. And then I was stunned to find out that the woman who was attacked is family to someone I work with every day.

Cincinnati's Duke Energy Honors Leelah Alcorn with Rainbow-lit Sign

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1/02/15 1:07pm

I grew up in Cincinnati, which is a very conservative town in a very conservative state (with pockets of progressiveness). This is huge. WCPO posted on Facebook that Duke Energy changed their "Cincinnati" sign from white lights to rainbow in honor of Leelah Alcorn.

Adam Baldwin (Firefly's Jayne) and Nick Searcy (Justified's Art): Homophobic Fat-Shaming Assholes

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2/23/14 8:59pm

Baldwin posts idiotic Tweet "What's wrong, now, with a father marrying his son for love & to avoid tax penalties?" Writer calls him out on it. Nick Searcy joins in with the very effective argument against the writer, "You're fat!"

Playboy on Kinja? What else have I missed?

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2/11/14 9:24pm

How did it take me until February 11 to notice that Playboy has an official Kinja page? The hell?

Bereaved Father's Amazing Post about Death of his Toddler

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1/09/14 2:47am

This is so beautifully written, I had to share it. But you will almost certainly cry.

Please Help Me Find Flattering Rainwear

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11/19/13 4:02pm

(I actually got that photo from a site selling it in earnest — what the what?)

Going Gray: My Resolve Wavers. Thoughts?

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11/13/13 4:39pm

Going Gray: My Resolve Wavers

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11/13/13 4:37pm

Well, damn, that didn't take long. Like I said before, my hairstylist is a genius. Maybe too much of one. The color she gave me last time I just loved so much. And now with my next appointment coming up on Friday...I am not sure I want to continue. Maybe I should just have her color in my roots, and take this up again…

A Brief History of Blackface

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10/30/13 3:25pm

A friend of mine shared this article on the history of blackface and it is an excellent overview of why going in blackface for Halloween (or ever) is not acceptable.

Comfort from the Afterlife

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10/26/13 9:12pm

I was reading this excellent post about real-life creepy, and as eleanoraquitaine mentioned in the comments, a lot of stuff gets buried in the mainpage onslaught. So I thought I'd share my comment from the spooky stories post (which is kind of a misnomer for mine anyway since it wasn't spooky, just amazing) and ask…

I cannot log in, and yet I am logged in?

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10/21/13 3:16pm

This is only a test. I am so confused.

Saturday Night Horror (and other films)

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10/12/13 7:36pm

It's always a struggle to find movies that I find scary and also find watchable. (Part of the reason I am very excited about the Horror Movie Club around these parts.) Last night I a lot of searches for scary movies, and here are some roundups that include a lot of so-called gems I've yet to see.

Going Gray: It Begins

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10/11/13 10:10pm

Thanks everyone who read my earlier post about going gray. I got my hair done today and let my hairdresser know what I planned. She is clearly a genius, as you can see by these photos. When I went in, the 3/4-inch of gray was clearly visible, but she did this blending thing where she did not dye over it, but instead…

Let's Hear It for Women who Age (Hollywood, wrinkles, gray hair, and me)

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10/09/13 1:16pm

I was watching an interview with the women starring in the upcoming movie Enough Said, and though they dye their hair, it was so amazingly refreshing to me to see: Julie Louis-Dreyfuss has wrinkles and is letting herself AGE. Catherine Keener has wrinkles and is letting herself AGE. I couldn't stop looking at them and…

Never Sleep Again: Terrifying True Tales from the Dark Reaches of the Internet UPDATED!

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10/06/13 9:44pm

UPDATE: Added a couple links below! Also, please check the comments for links to more good sites, and please add your own.

I don't have cable and XOJane just spoiled the Breaking Bad finale in an article preview.

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9/30/13 6:47am

THERE ARE NO SPOILERS IN THIS POST! I AM RANTING BECAUSE I AM SO ANGRY.

Can we talk about this sponsored post?

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9/27/13 1:31pm

"I betrayed my husband and now my kids are going to suffer." Is this post sponsored by Tyler Perry? The author also states that once you think about cheating, it's already a done deal. Uh — huh? Wha? Dude, I've been married for ten years. You sometimes get attracted to other people. That's called being human. It is…

Depression and Jam

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9/10/13 2:10am

So I've been having a very difficult couple of weeks — just general depression and a lot of significant other fights. We are working on things, getting some professional help, etc. (There's no real rhyme or reason to this; I have a history of it but it hasn't been bad like this in a very long time.) At the same time,…

Happy Birthday to Me and to You!

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8/16/13 2:54am

August 16: It's my birthday! Is it yours?

I Need Help with Asshole Friends (The Novel)

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8/09/13 1:22am

I am on the horns of a dilemma, and when you read this, you will wonder why I am still friends with these people. I kind of am too. But this is one of those "I feel X, my partner feels Y" situations. And I need help. Here goes.