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If he is trans, it's been for a long damn time. My father worked alongside him during the Gulf War, and I've met him several times myself. People who live in the South know that the very gay-acting straight man is just a thing down here. The only real evidence that would suggest he was anything other than straight

oh, definitely.

well, if by just, you meant last week, sure.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure that's been my only trip to Asheville. For some reason, I can't remember if I saw Rasputina in Asheville or Charlotte.

Indeed it was! And my friend and I had grabbed tacos from a restaurant a block or two down right before.

See, now you're talking about the straw feminists who sure, maybe exist somewhere in the darkest realms of Tumblr (and I have run into one or two), but honestly 99% of feminists don't think like that. Rape is a feminist issue, regardless of the victim, but as I said before, male rape is problematic, because often it's

I was at a Queens of the Stone Age concert in Asheville, NC, right after their album Era Vulgaris dropped. It's a meh album, and it was disappointing that they mostly played from that one and not an earlier, better one. But was really bad about the concert was the drunk couple standing behind me and my friend who

except that people invoke the fact about men being raped not because they care about male victims, but because they want to not talk about female victims. That's why the MRA community was silent when Shia Lebeouf (sp?) said that he had been raped.

Problem is, if you're a burner account and you say something that an MRA would say, you immediately look like an MRA.

Only took two minutes for someone to pop in with "BUT WHAT ABOUT TEH MENZ".

Are we going to talk about how Jill Soloway, the creator of Transparent, has been ridiculing Bruce Jenner?

Your comment is both funny and tremendously sad at the same time.

12 Angry Ladies

Take and be healthy!

My favorite was her rather fawning tribute to Dzhokar Tsarnaev.

I genuinely want to know what Grace thinks of her spot-on impersonator in Gone Girl.

Every poem she writes should be called "why I'm the most interesting person in the world" and then she can just attach a chapter number. I assume we're into double digits by now.

Does anyone else think this school is fucking huge?