haha, undoubtedly. Don't be rational, now, I'll have none of it!
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Still laughing at "LoniManderson"
Ugh. So disappointed.
Co-signed. I'm uncomfortable with relying on his timing in the throes of passion. I was using this method with a guy I was seeing for a few months and one night he begged me to let him do it without pulling out first and I shouldn't have been put in the position to order him not to or be at his mercy. Though I was on…
This was one of my issue without the method. If I'm on top, now I've got to be responsible for knowing when he's going to ejaculate? No, thanks. He can say he is, I suppose, and I guess people normally do, but uh...that makes me feel slightly unsafe and I like being on top so that kind of sucks for me!
Yeah, my feeling exactly. Relying on when a man, a fallible human, decides to pull out hardly seems like the most exact way to prevent pregnancy. It just isn't all that comforting. I did it at one time but that was with birth control, though it's worth saying it was still dumb to trust someone is STI-free.
Good to know you still found a relationship while being true to yourself and that he's cool with being alone now and then himself. It gives me hope! Thanks for the encouragement!
I suppose I'm just bitching here, but have any women here had the opposite problem of being too needy? As in being too "cold"?
I lived in a small town and we had bonfires out on a friend's farm...whilst drinking. A lot can go wrong there, probably...but if you're underage and looking for a place to drink maybe that's the way to go? I would suggest looking to nature if possible. Are there lakes? Hiking trails? Places to ski? Apple picking? All…
Maybe he was a big star for a certain generation but I knew who Paula was before I knew who he was, as he is a fading star and she has been a rising one for some time. He's not an iconic older star that young people revere and he isn't a new one that will thrive in the future so he's stuck in an odd place. That's why…
I don't know the hell asexuality works because I don't have it, but I'm not going to define it for them. Maybe they're drawn to people of the same sex but don't have any libido to carry through the attraction? I just don't appreciate the idea that you become a lesbian in order to get emotional fulfillment you can't…
I'll add an asterisk. You can be gay or lesbian or bisexual and be asexual, but conflating not caring about sex with being gay frustrates me. I know you were simply asking a question, though.
I think a lot of lesbians and bisexual women (I'm one) find that sentiment to be extremely frustrating and delegitimizing. It IS a woman being attracted to, wanting to have SEX with other women. I talk to me female and male friends all the time, boyfriend or girlfriend, so the idea that women need a relationship to be…
Why? Do you think she'll go all Miranda and say, "I lost all my baby weight so now I can fit into my skinny jeans!"
I have a question: Has anyone recently seen that man without sunglasses? Is he a vampire?
You sum up my feelings exactly. It's like "Sexiness? Fuck that noise. Imma put on my soft pastel pullover and do my thing."
I almost couldn't believe...a bikini made of chicken? Are you fucking serious? Really? It's almost more sexualizing and disgusting and just in really poor fucking taste than the bathtub. Hell, maybe it is. What the fuuuuuuck.
I used to hate 80s fashion, but all I can think looking at these pictures is: "They look so comfortable in those bulky sweaters! It's one big warm sweater hug!
Humans tend to change moods without warning. It's something people tend to do. What is the correct amount of time between mood shifts? Unless you're saying someone is bipolar, I'm not totally sure what you mean by this. Let me assure you, men are totally capable of being "tricky" and changing moods quickly.
Why don't more men try to understand this? I lived in co-ed graduate housing and sometimes you have to get up to pee, and then you run into some jackass on your way to the bathroom who has a titty comment. I had to start wearing a goddamn sweater every time. Titties: Get over it!! (them)