Well, yes. But then why do American white women get labeled as superficial for not dating shorter guys, while men who carefully craft their preferences to exclude anyone except Asian and white women (maybe a white latina if any move nearby) get labeled as just good dudes with a preference?

I remember when I was in England for a semester this one racy mag one of my male flatmates read (it also had some pics of actors I liked) had a ton of full page ads to the effect of "too drunk to consent=no" "lack of yes or no=no" and my favorite, the nicely explicit "stop means stop now or you're a rapist".

You find it hard to believe there are people who aren't like the people you've known? Not everywhere is the same, not everyone is the same. When I was growing up, girls were my best friends. They protected me from the boys who loved nothing more than to bully me and beat me. There was no way I thought anything but…

I'm *far* more amused by how fast you went on the attack just because a stranger on the internet says they don't share one specific character flaw that you and many other people (myself included) have. You've made up this entire scenario in your head about this person claiming to be perfect because they don't have…

Whoa, hold on a second. You started out saying "we've all put someone down, based on their appearance." It's really entirely possible that someone has NEVER done that, that they are too shy or insecure or just KIND. Now you've switched to "everyone has uncharitable thoughts sometimes." Of course they do, we can't…

Certainly we've all done it. Some of us don't want to revel in it online because we're ashamed of that tendency.

Because when people talk about physical fitness for women, they rarely mean "strong", "fast", or "has great stamina". They mean skinny. They mean fuckable. Flat stomach. Hard thighs. Firm, round boobs. That kind of stuff. Because fat, pregnant-looking men will disparage average-sized women about their weight as…

Actually I think it's a good idea to let people know all the dirty details that no one tells you about. I have met more than a few women who have had kids and then unexpectedly ran into these problems that the articles discusses; no one told them about this ahead of time!

how is it sensationalist to acknowledge real changes a body undergoes during pregnancy that are rarely talked about?

Why on earth would you come onto any feminist site and say that women have equal rights now and feminism is over?

Oh fuck off with your "stereotypical Jezebel reader" you stereotypical male dipshidiot. Conducted a comprehensive survey of all the Jezebel readers of the world lately have you? You came here to tell us you don't like anyone here so that's why you're here?
Just. Fuck. Off.

You might want to do some actual research on what it takes to get a gender changed on medical documents and passports and legal certification. It certainly isn't as simple as going to a doctor, saying "I'm actually a girl!", and the doctor saying "okay, cool, I'll just sign this form and you can be on your way."

This is the same stupid shit as you would say when a woman says she is raped. You'll sit back and claim that some women LIE so why should we believe HER? There is NO benefit to claiming to be raped or claiming to be trans gendered. What possible upside is there to this? You think some dude is going to upend his entire…