I’m mostly stunned that in her follow up to the original drama, she went and named ANOTHER WOMAN OF COLOR. 

Sometimes there are not two sides in a “debate” because one of them is just wrong.  She is telling women to shut up about white privilege - black women.  That’s not a debate.  That is being bigoted whether she likes it or not.  She could have acknowledged her intent wasn’t the impact, copped to the fact her language…

I think she means we need to be more gentle because white women’s fee fees are oh so very delicate.

If we can’t genuinely self-reflect after making a statement fraught with racism, intentional or not, we’re not going to have much of a society. OH guess what, that’s happening right now.

“the need for fragility in the feminist movement”

I never understood why that joke was funny. I’m a spare myself, and I hate it. We’re not royals, but I’m supposed to show up to stuff where I literally have no role because the firstborn son does it all*. I’ve explained many times that I’ve been head of my household for over 20 years now so why would I ever go back to…

No. Shit. Can't imagine why a grown man would want out of his crucial role as "The Spare".

The press scapegoated her. So you honestly think he could have stopped them? It’s blatantly obvious they do not do his bidding.

Duh, he’s been rebelling all his life. 

No, you mean a man who went to serve in Afghan partly to get away from the Press and has a longstanding issue with them for, you know, getting his mother killed might have been the one to want to leave?

Well, here is Pattinson’s actual quote:

“There has to be a place in feminism for women who look and act like me,” you wrote in your letter. “The kind of woman who says no but men hear yes—the kind of women who are slated mercilessly for being their authentic DELICATE selves.”

HOLY fuck what the hell is happening in these comments? What the fuck? When did the commentariat here turn into a bunch of white Karen bitch ass motherfuckers? My God.

This. Also, I will say the while press at times has been unnecessarily harsh on her—music criticism often unfairly brings in the personal lives of women & music journalism can have a misogynistic bent—it’s beyond delusional she believes she’s had it worse than Black & Latina artists or hell, even some other white…

Elizabeth needs to go sit her ass down somewhere.

I was watching this thinking he’s either really really good at sex, or really really bad. No way he’s mediocre. That kind of confidence is either based in reality, or the dunning-kruger effect. 

I never followed him before seeing him on SNL this (?) season, but I def have a thing for his vibe. Same thing I have for Klaus in Umbrella Academy actually....

If you haven’t seen the Tiny Desk version yet, it’s worth checking out:

I basically ignored 1D and Harry’s first album but am unabashedly in love with Fine Line. The videos have been solid as well. Adore Me is super weird and cute, and I’m digging that there was trans inclusion in this vid that doesn’t feel exploitative (at least as a cis woman, trans sisters please let me know if you…

Not sure how many times you intended us to watch so I did a few times just to make sure I could enjoy thoroughly. As kids say these days...this is the content I’m here for.