There are articles about Lena Dunham’s admission that she bald-faced lied to discredit a black rape victim all over my Facebook feed, yet nary a mention of it on Jezebel’s mainpage (unless I somehow missed it) and yet there have been at least three mentions of Cardi B’s divorce in the same time period and the lead…

Is anyone else experiencing this problem?

When I was kid, treat or treating was a well-oiled machine. I’d accept an invitation to join whichever friend lived in the tallest, wealthiest building. Their co-ops often had sign-up sheets which saved time by conveniently letting you know exactly which doorbells to ring. We’d start at the top floor and work our way…

I have a family member who’s been reaching out, ostensibly to offer her shoulder to me in a crisis situation but in actuality to insert herself into a conflict between me and another family member. I have twenty years of good reasons not to trust this person who has spent the last couple weeks imposing her offer of…

This is fascinating. It’s hard not to notice that classic scripts tend focus more on the character’s persona whereas more recent scripts tend to parse their Madonna/whore placement and fuckability.

Is there some dumbass White Ally 101 listicle that recommends sending unsolicited texts to your POC acquaintances after an event like Charlottesville to offer your support and virtual hugs? If so, can you not?

A pregnant woman had a stroke and was rendered brain dead. Doctors detected the heartbeats from the twin fetuses and kept the mother alive in a vegetative state for four months until the babies could be delivered by cesarean. 

Interesting article! Let’s discuss.

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Somebody made a thing. And it’s pretty funny.

Applying makeup is on the list of subway etiquette don’ts, and Covergirl’s decided it’s a worthwhile cause to lead the charge against that. Is this really a stigma worth challenging? I don’t think anyone objects to a brief touch-up or compact check, but beyond that, I feel like bathroom behavior belongs in the…

After four years of highly sporadic use, my OK Cupid inbox has met its maximum capacity and is in need of a big fat steaming dump. I felt the need to share this dump with you.

After four years of highly sporadic use, my OK Cupid inbox has met its maximum capacity and is in need of a big fat steaming dump. I felt the need to share this dump with you.

After four years of highly sporadic use, my OK Cupid inbox has met its maximum capacity and is in need of a big fat steaming dump. I felt the need to share this dump with you.

Is anyone else confused about the seeming omnipresence of Aunt Lydia?

This article is a nice supplement to the recent Times piece on polyamory. As always, I’m here for your AMA on ENM. Two drink minimum, tip your waitress.

Every now and then, you get a like on an old-ish article. Even more precious is the rare comment on a truly ancient article. But the height of Kinja is the screed reply on a five year old Hugo Schywzer article. Yes, THAT Hugo Schywzer article. Good grief.

In spite of yesterday’s mainpage anti-poly sentiments, or perhaps because of it, I’d like to share the wonderful, brand new web series Unicornland. It’s the most true to life glimpse I’ve ever seen into the poly/ENM and kink communities. Season 1 is just 8 well constructed vignettes you can screen in under an hour!