Savage Love4/14/21Apr 14SaveSavage Love4/14/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Letter ripDan Savage77I’m a female in my late twenties. I broke up with a toxic ex about a year ago and I’ve been walking around (my…
Savage Love4/7/21Apr 71Savage Love4/7/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: ConcessionsDan Savage105I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we…
Savage Love3/31/21Mar 312Savage Love3/31/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Mess around and find outDan Savage74I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship—or so I thought. Last week, I snooped on…
Savage Love3/24/21Mar 241Savage Love3/24/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: LivestreamDan Savage54I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream last Saturday night. Mistress Matisse was our…
Savage Love3/17/21Mar 171Savage Love3/17/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: The phone jobDan Savage86A male friend—not my best friend but a close one—told me his wife was really attracted to me, another male, and…
Savage Love3/10/21Mar 101Savage Love3/10/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Cutting remarksDan Savage89I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To…
Savage Love3/3/21Mar 3SaveSavage Love3/3/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: DevastationDan Savage168 I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if that wasn’t…
Savage Love2/24/21Feb 241Savage Love2/24/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: De-kinkedDan Savage45I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but mine have all…
Savage Love2/17/21Feb 17SaveSavage Love2/17/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Pandemic pressuresDan Savage67I’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the…
Savage Love2/10/21Feb 102Savage Love2/10/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Toy boyDan Savage82I’m positive you’ve written something about this in the past. I have searched your archives but have only managed to…
Savage Love2/3/21Feb 31Savage Love2/3/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: QuickiesDan Savage63 I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him…
Savage Love1/27/21Jan 271Savage Love1/27/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: The boyfriend experienceDan Savage67Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal…
Savage Love1/20/21Jan 201Savage Love1/20/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Case disclosedDan Savage90I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and went…
Savage Love1/13/21Jan 13SaveSavage Love1/13/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Cum againDan Savage55As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot”…
Savage Love1/6/21Jan 6SaveSavage Love1/6/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: European adventuresDan Savage74We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t…
Savage Love12/30/20Dec 303Savage Love12/30/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Lesbian dramaDan Savage30One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama…
Savage Love12/23/20Dec 231Savage Love12/23/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Livestream 2Dan Savage33We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but…
Savage Love12/16/20Dec 16SaveSavage Love12/16/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Gay dream believerDan Savage41I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…
Savage Love12/9/20Dec 9SaveSavage Love12/9/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: The casseroleDan Savage101Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy…
Savage Love12/2/20Dec 21Savage Love12/2/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Losing outDan Savage65I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and…