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I broke up with someone via post-it. Guy jimmied the lock on my apartment, drank all my beer and left his dog inside while I was at work and left. When he returned there was a post-it on the door for him telling him to "fuck off and take his dog with him". He was lucky I didn't have him arrested!

Truth! Thank you.

False. Just because someone was abused does not make them a pedofile or excuse their crimes in any way. I was sexually abused by my father and I am not a pedofile.

Thank you, I am trying. You take care of yourself as well.

That made my day! Thanks!

I felt the same growing up, I got beaten instead of hugs and still have scars to remind me. I never had many friends as they were terrified of my father. We are a very large club, and we are survivors.

I was in therapy for a long time but not since his suicide. I need to go back. Thank you, I needed to hear this today.

Jesus, you could be describing my father. I moved 10 hours away from him with my son because he told me he would kill all of us. 8 years later he shot his wife and himself. She survived. Had I been there, my son and I would most likely be dead also.

My father was a raging racist also and I am not. I held a gun on him when I was 12 and the only reason I didn't kill him was because of the mess I would have been left with. Funny irony is now I have that same gun under my bed. I hate father's day.

I totally get it. My father was an evil man in so many ways, but he taught me how to survive, made me tough, and fucked me up mentally for life. Once he died, the good memories came back. Even though they were very few, I wish I had just spoken to him once...he killed himself partially because i abandoned him. I was…

The funny thing about abusive, bad fathers is we still love them on some level. No one is all good or all bad...some are just worse than others.

I don't know your reasons, but call him. I didn't speak to my father for 10 years for very serious reasons. He killed himself 2 years ago. It is my biggest regret in life.

My father was one bad-ass dude.

Great choice.

I laughed so hard
Thanks

That was SO FUCKED UP!