Why does it fucking matter to you? Do you believe someone can be gay? Why? Because someone told you it’s possible? Why do you believe them? Do you believe someone can not like pizza? Do you believe someone has seen ghosts? Who the fuck cares? Slap a unisex sign on the bathroom and move on with your life, just like…

this is highly reductionist. colloquial usage of words shifts and changes over time, especially when marginalized groups reclaim them. it’s valid.