I live in Az, I have a kid who isn't old enough for MMR yet. I want to put her in a bubble. Fuck you anti vaxers. FUCK. YOU.

OMG I CAN DO THIS. I WILL FINALLY HAVE CAT EYE. *WEEPS WITH JOY*

Except I paid for my two THOUSAND dollar dress with my own money, in cash,that I earned.

Yeaaaah her standards are lame as fuck. These things do not make for a happy life.

You should never settle. That being said....she does realize her husband could be bald down the line...right? My husband had a full head of hair when we met. As did his 88 year old grandpa and brothers.

I am ok with this as long as he is in solitary forever and eats the worst food on the planet.

I mean how do you NOT end someone who molests and then kills a newborn baby? Even worse...your own child? WHAT ELSE DO WE DO WITH YOU? Clearly you are the most depraved human being alive. You are simply done.

lots of people will. See: myself and all the other people commenting with kids here. Lmao

It is shocking how similar it can be.

Get new friends. now. like last week.

I adore this woman.

:( I am sorry. My husband got a vasectomy. No way I'm doing it again. I did the meds and nothing helped. I ended up stopping nursing and went back on bcp and it helped a lot. It's been a slow process for sure. Daughter is nearing a year and I could not be more excited to not have a small baby anymore.

No you are right on. I waited a while for the change and nope....I'd say I'm still who I was.

I loved my kid but it took time.to be in love with her.

I think people who haven't done anything else think this way. It IS a fulfilling relationship. It's not the ONLY fulfilling thing one can do and it for sure isn't the be all and end all of existence. It doesn't make or break your life.

I would have given my foot to have this and not the panic attacks that left me wailing and shaking and scared to even look at my kid and the depression that hung.over me for months.

It seems that way. I mean think about it. Your body just went through hell,so you are trying to heal. You are getting weird, broken sleep. Your life has turned upside down. You have these huge new roles to figure out. Does any of this sound fun? Like a time you are bursting with life? It's not. I don't know how anyone…

It totally does. And I have a kid.

Yes you feel overwhelmed with love and there are a ton of happy times. I tell people who ask my kid is one of my favorite people to hang out with. I mince no words in being real though. That the first three months are a cluster fuck. That ppd/ppa was legitimately the most terrifying thing I have ever experienced. My…

I completely agree.