Out of curiosity, why did you bring up alpha/beta males?

A part of it is not wanting to assimilate a task you feel on a deep level isn't your responsibility, and I include myself in this. There's almost a resentment of the person trying to make you take it on, because you feel deep down that it's not your role. This is why we need to teach our children these…

I don't mean an adjustment period where other people pick up the slack, just an adjustment period until they start doing it right.

This is an excellent point! As Chairperson of a non-profit that employed young people I had the opportunity to see how these habits played out on a gendered basis. My vision for the organization was to make the workspace a community by bringing the "feminine" labour out in the open and rewarding people for practicing…

Not seeing the work is a real thing. I'm not apologizing for men or anything, but it's hard to notice things that have never been your responsibility. I think an adjustment period is acceptable until it becomes organic.

I mean, they're probably less competent at it because they don't do it. Given time and practice, I'm sure we could adjust haha.

I've been working for years now to try to reverse engineer my learned male behaviours and it's damn hard. As a man, once you pass the basic logic of feminism barrier, it's easy to accept and advocate for the big stuff in theory. The hard part is working on your daily behaviour and analyzing your everyday interactions.…

My girlfriend once said "holy shitsnacks" when she was turned on, true story. I've never let her live it down.

That's the panicked stroking of a man who's realized that he's burying his career.

My focus isn't on Beyoncé so much as the people who subscribe to the surface-level brand of feminism in her act. That says nothing about Beyoncé herself or her level of feminism as an individual, only recognizes the limitations of the depth of the feminism built into her act.

I think Beyoncé is more iconic so she…

None, unfortunately.

Yeah, I don't know man. You make a valid point about people who overemphasize the bad feminist thing with Beyonce, but I don't think it's all about how she portrays sex.

Don't you mean rearing? Not ruling?

I think it's because they're hyper alert so they feel safe in boxes. Have you ever watched videos where they put sticky notes on different angles of the cat and it walks all funny like it was in contact with a brick wall instead of flimsy paper?

Racism is nothing if not cognitively dissonant.

Look on the bright side, at least she still has her skin on her body.

Super funny but realtalk: the heels are probably only for the dress uniform, not regular combat gear.

Yeah. I'm assuming we're talking about consensual sex though.

what do you mean by misogyny problems in sex?

What do you mean by misogyny problems in sex?