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annanigma
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I take pictures of all kinds of things. The city, nearly everything I bake, books I'm reading, etc etc. I post them because I am looking for outside validation on it all. I post pictures of cupcakes I've made because I want people to say, "Those look yummy!" I want "Beautiful pic!" Posted to the picture I take of the…
Okay, this is an issue I hold dear to me for stupid reasons, and I have to defend my selfies. So I'm just copypasting from a little thing I already had written. Apologies for the long post and its almost narcissistic vibe, but I mean what I say here.
This is a discussion of systemic inequalities. It's not that men go out LOOKING for a domestically imbalanced partnership, but that's what they traditionally GET and benefit from, whether anyone wants it or not. And, by extension, that's how a lot of people (men and women!) unconsciously expect their relationships to…
I read (I really wish I could remember the author, and then I'd sound legit) that men need marriage more than women because for men, a wife/girlfriend is the only person he connects with on an emotional level - he might enjoy "doing things" with other guys, but he rarely will sit and emotionally connect with another…
This reminds me of something I read somewhere, where men and women were both asked what their "comfort foods" were. Men tended to answer with things that are labor-intensive and/or complex to make - lasagna, meatloaf, fried chicken. Women tended to respond with convenience foods that don't require preparation -…