Surly-Canuck
Surly Canuck
Surly-Canuck

The reveal gave me goosebumps. Ted Danson sold it! I’m honestly curious to see if Fake Eleanor is a better person now (is all her personal growth gone now that she has no memory or is she fundamentally changed). And Janet! Oh my goodness I can’t wait for more Janet. She stole every scene she was in.

The scene where Eleanor and Tahani decide not to fight over a man was spectacular! You never see that! I love how this show defied my expectations.

Nope, everyone knows the real money is in dispersing chem trails.

Actually my toddler prefers Tangled to Frozen because she “love Eugene”. Yes, the known-criminal. I’m so proud.

My t thought was “Does he need CJ to explain why this is a very, bad, terrible idea?” Then I remembered that this is 2017 and the regular rules don’t apply anymore.

Actually, I like that idea. Just a glitch.

I’m so sorry you are dealing with that pain. I know how draining it can be. Everything hurts. Sometimes I get sideswiped by suicidal thoughts. Even looking down at my smiling baby, I’ll think “she’d be so much better without me”. Good for you for getting some help. I find deconstructing/challenging my negative

Especially since it leads to the abused person living in fear. Their home is no longer safe. Even if it only ever happens once, there is always that little voice telling you it’s a possibility.

Well in his defense, he said he’s do a “real job” not a real good job. I think he was just contrasting with the fake jobs he’s held previously.

You may have a point there. He is the guy who is so “smart” he doesn’t need daily intelligence briefings.

Am I the only one confused about the Nazi Germany reference in his tweet?

I’ve been thinking of researching the history and beliefs of my clan and getting more familiar that way. Taking an academic approach. my particular clan is not known for their openness. I sometimes wish I could ask my mom about what she knows/remembers, but she has very complicated feelings about the rez and our

Claiming them back. That is such an important piece of the puzzle. My mom is native, but I grew up far removed from that culture. I struggle with identifying myself that way because it feels inauthentic. I feel like I’m appropriating a history that I have no right to. I lack the stories or language that would bring my

Agreed. I don’t have status, but my mom does. It would be an easy thing to show my connection to my band. He likely doesn’t have any proof.

I’m so sorry for your loss.

A bottle episode of Zoe as the captain (in an alternative timeline kind of way) would have been hilarious. Dammit Firefly! Come back and make my damn dreams come true already!

Haha, my husband and I often talk about each other’s dream version. Anything that starts with “I dreamed about you last night...” is usually met with “Oh no, what did dream Surly do now”? Our fictional selves are huge douche-canoes.

I’m sure that’s what the writers were going for, but someone who doesn’t want kids, probably doesn’t want to be a stepparent either. That part of the finale left me really uncomfortable even if the kids are older.

I was just going to point this out. If you aren’t exposed to anything other than shitty parenting, it’s very difficult to learn a different way to parent. Abuse tends to be a cycle for this reason. I’m trying to do better than my mom who did better than her mother, but I also have a lot more time and resources

Oddly enough, it’s my perpetually single friends who post “Keys to a happy relationship” or “I won’t just settle for anybody” memes. All. The. Time.