Great point. As someone who struggles with this as well as some others on this thread, how do you find those signs? Do you have any reading recommendations?

Oh gosh, I hate that! He probably wanted you to break up with him so he wouldn't be the "bad guy." Blegh.

+1000. Just some variation of "it's over" so we aren't waiting around or experiencing the pain/rudeness/disrespect of the silent treatment.

Tag: "NO." Bahaha.

*snort!*

Exactly! I could have a friend like Wendy and be like "whatever, just keep me out of it," but my future partner had better dang be happy with just me (aka prefer me to porn, other people, group sex, etc.) and get that same cuddly oxytocin rush I get, or else we would not be compatible.

Seriously. Married or not, intruding on an exclusive relationship is just so wrong. :(

I feel the same way only because I am like that, and cannot untie my connection between love and sex, and would simply not want someone with such a different viewpoint/life experience.

PREACH. She is going to be so unhappy settling. I know from experience. :(

Right? I like shows with plots. And cartoons.

I figured these shows were all a hoax, but wow, this is really sad. :(

Oh, of course. I do seek out those with similar interests. This guy in the article didn't seem to be, but if he is only attracted to model types, he'll waste time and create unhappiness on both sides if he dates a gamer girl he finds unattractive because he "should." Though at the time the model girls he dates may…

He's cute!

I agree with you on all of this, and I think it's unfair that people are attacking you. The only thing different for me is that I would date overweight (not obese) guys. Like those stocky, broad-shouldered types with muscle under those extra pounds. Mmm. *cough* Anyway...

Bahahaha xD

Who is he?

Thank you. :)

I think it's funny too, but I have a rule of not wearing any jewelry I wouldn't want my grandmother to see LOL.

I'm really disappointed. I like Ke$ha but I'm sad she chose something so vulgar.

Do your creeper/alarm bells go off? Do they not "click with/get" you naturally? Does the idea of them ever touching you make your skin crawl? Are they hot but not hot -to you-? I have the same problem and it's usually, if not always, due to one of those things. Otherwise I would not be single.