Actually, dressing rooms are a rather vulnerable place for women. There have been a bunch of cases where women have been secretly taped and spied on in dressing rooms. (Bathrooms as well.) I doubt that it often happens that a person intending to creep a sneak peek on women in dressing rooms are so bold to make an…
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It is not her responsibility to be "pretty," or even to "pass". It is absolutely the responsibility of the lingerie store to protect ALL of the other women—cis and trans—inside their store from a wolf in the sheepfold. If any associate had even a shadow of a doubt that Kylie Jack anything other than just a woman…
I do not countenance transphobic or bigoted behavior, but I am with you that we may not have an accurate picture of what transpired here. Kylie Jack is indeed extremely masculine looking, and I can imagine that a lingerie salon may, right or wrong, fear a pervy man putting on a dress and saying he is a transwoman to…
Here's the pendulum swinging in my head: she looks very dudely and I'm not surprised she got "sirred," but it's not her responsibility to be a "pretty" trans woman just to get the correct pronouns, but she can't expect the right pronouns if she still looks dudely and Texans are polite so you get sirs and ma'ams…
Maybe wait to see how this plays out? I get the impression that the owner is well intentioned but uneducated and that it's reflected in the staff's training. Maybe this is a teachable moment for them?
Well, Evans better get ready for the taunts.
Anyone else remember Triumph the Insult Comic Dog and Spock just marching around, giving everyone the finger?
If you want to see serious contouring skills, go watch drag queen makeup tutorials.
Contouring is a drag queen tool. It works for drag queens because they are typically performing, and the look is a more exaggerated, overdone version of femininity. When women do it, but also try to make it look natural, they look like second rate drag queens. I am really not seeing the issue here.
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I like Kesha well enough until I saw her video for Blow, and realized that she's kind of trolling everyone (which made me love her, of course). I could never bring myself to add the $ when typing her name though, so I'm glad for the change. I hope her recovery goes well!
I love you Kesha! Keep doing what you do and every time someone comes along and bitches that you're not "Ladylike" or "Classy" enough, you just keep being comfortable in your skin!
Yup. It stinks!
I'm feeling a similar vibe as the Tom Hiddleston "Murder-Negotiate My Colleagues" Jaguar one.
Not a fan of the "knees facing inward" pose, though. Seems more like an anime girl thing than a tough or heroic stance. The outfit itself, though, is actually surprisingly cool. I'm a fan.
Let's give this gal the benefit of the doubt. It's possible she didn't realize how serious you were when you laid down that no-sex-talk boundary.
To add onto that:
Um, and she might also not be respecting the boundaries of her sexual partners by telling mutual friends details about their sex lives? Yeah, kinda not cool unless this is your best fucking friend and you have established that it's cool to spill the details on your sex life with them and that they…
In the middle of all this handwringing over your friend's consensual sexual activities,
You know, sometimes I feel weird about this, but I really don't like hearing about other people's sex lives. Not in a judgey way, but like, I don't go into graphic detail about my life and I don't want my friends to go into graphic detail about theirs. Really, we're all grownups, we're all doing it, it's not that big…
Option 6. You LOVE pubic hair and just hair in general and wish all your lovers were hairy men like Sean Connery James Bond and anyone from the 70s.