I see your point but the article was talking specifically about mixed signals. Saying you want to go out on Saturday and then never following up with making plans is not cool.l I agree, if you've only been going out with someone for a little bit, backing off and slow fading is fine. They should get the hint. But…

Yes, because everyone lives as an adult where they grew up and all handles must reflect where we are from and not where we currently live. I grew up in Tennessee but live in NYC now. Is that hard to comprehend?

Yes, I made a mistake by typing too fast and wrote "race" when I meant to write "homophobia." It doesn't really change what I wrote though about The South. I love The South, by the way. There are some aspects about the South that are really great. Homophobia and racism are not those aspects. Those things exist…

OK Internet spell checker! I type fast. Its a comment section, not an essay for English class.

Wow, that is pretty awful especially since he was (I assume) being vouched for by your friend.

Sorry, I assumed they were white, which is very wrong on my part. But homophobia is also a form of discrimination and it is rampant in the South. Its also rampant among football players and yes, they are meathead jocks who think they are kings of the world because they play football. I love Oxford, by the way. …

Someone's gettin' laid!

Yes, I think its ok to slow fade too. But making tentative plans or acting like you might still be interested when you are not is the ultimate dick move. Most likely when people aare doing that they have someone else on the line that they are more interested in and you are their back up. Which SUCKS.

The best thing you can do for yourself (female or male) when dating with someone is to basically end it immediately and forever if they pull any shit like this with you. If you make tentative plans with someone and they are supposed to call you to solidify the plans and they don't, fuck 'em. Don't text and don't…

Um, actually dude, I could name many colleges across the country where this would not happen and surprise, they would most likely not be in the South. I'm from the south too so please don't act like I don't know what I'm talking about. Are there decent non racist people in Misssippii who attend Ole Miss? Sure. Are…

That's fair enough. And I agree, if you want a ring go get it and wear it! But maybe its not an engagement ring. I don't know, maybe I'm just old fashioned and not progressive enough and in non hetereosexual relationships I'm sure its much more grey as far as who proposes to who and who gives the ring. I just…

I mean, I guess this is progress? I just don't see the point of spending a lot of money if you can't really afford that ring? So what if you make the same or more than your man? Why would you want to spend so much money if its stressful for him to spend that much? The size/worth of the ring does not reflect the…

This is so obviously a ploy to get a movie or tv or book deal.

He's being selfish. Although it could be coming from a place of anxiety. IE, he's ready to rock and he doesn't want to lose his erection. As a dude I can remember having this thought too but as I've gotten older I just don't worry about it as much. I mean, what's the rush? You can take a break, have sex later, do…

Why would anyone want Walt Jr to die? He is nothing but a victim in this whole fiasco and stood up to his Dad exactly the way he should have.

Im gonna have to disagree with that. I'm not saying if you say you don't like country you hate white people. But country music is associated with lower class whites, southern whites, poor whites, etc...and in my experience (ancedotal I know) there is definitely an air of elitism among people who say they don't like…

It never ends. It just becomes less and less something you worry about. The flip side of it, though, is that you can lose that fire. But turning 30 is a nice marker. You wake up and go "oh, I'm still alive and I'm still messed up and don't have it all figured out and that's ok."

I know there are dudes out there that are like this but whenever I read something like this about what guys will say to their friends, I'm always like "really?" because I never talk about shit like that with my friends. We hang out, drink beer, watch sports and movies, whatever. And yeah if one of us has just…

Guys are not so into it. Guys who watch a ton of porn and think they need to do anal to be cool are into it. Its never appealed to me at all. Good for people who enjoy it but its not for me.

I think spoilers are overrated. If a show is any good it shouldn't be ruined by a spoiler. Its getting there that is half the fun and usually if the show is good you forget the spoiler by the time it comes around. Movies are a different story. Limited amount of time and all and its more about the story than the…