ho.li.shit.

oh my GOD. disturbingly bizarre!!!

that would be so scary! I once had a bf hit me in the face in his sleep but no pinning down. how did he respond when you told him what happened?

sweet jesus, I can't wait to use both of these!!!

Last year, I had to get a small mole removed from my upper inner thigh b/c it turned red and irritated. When I asked my doc what could have happened to turn it that way, she told me it was probably b/c of my thighs rubbing together. I like to give credit to my thighs for rubbing my mole off. This is kind of a…

I don't know what barrows are but I still love this.

Not all women judge each other to the point we have no one to turn to. It can be tough out there, but we're doing ok.

Laura, I <3 you. Where the hell do you find this shit??

Yeah...'cause that's what the point is!

fulminating is a horrible word choice, tho.

Agreed!!! Goodbye, good luck, and keep yelling about rape!

A woman does not invite a rapist to rape her because she is drunk. A rapist is invited to rape her because he is a rapist. He creates his own invitation, and insists on it, because he is fucked up in the head, not because she is drunk. This is why rapists also rape women who are sober. (Uh oh, then shouldn't we also…

Your previous comment suggested to me that women should avoid drinking as a means of protecting themselves from being raped. If that's what you believe, than it's absolutely accurate to compare avoiding driving to prevent accidents with avoiding drinking to prevent being raped.

perfect!!!!

Oooooo that was a reach!!!! Come on now. You twisted what I wrote. Let me break it down for you again:

If you're advocating that women never/rarely get drunk as a measure of protecting themselves from rape, your comparison (seatbelt in car = women not drinking) doesn't work. The correct comparison would be NEVER/RARELY DRIVING A CAR to women never/rarely getting drunk. Do you avoid driving cars to prevent accidents?…

In the paraphrased words of the late great PM Golda Meir when told that women should have a curfew at night to protect themselves during a series of rape outbreaks: No — It's the men who are raping them. The men should have the curfew.

The way women dress on campus does not pose a threat to other students.

Your analogy doesn't work because the student who wrote this turned himself in, rather than being found via police investigation, and we don't know for certain he has been cleared. According to the BCPD, the investigation is ongoing. This is why it still presents an immediate threat as of now.

Rape has everything to do with it.