I think you're right, and that's the same way I feel about the term "comfort women". It completely trivializes the reality of what those women are going through, and the reality of what those men are doing.

Wow...this picture is incredibly disturbing.

or suggesting that you are a whore if you fuck.

I am a transplant now, too - I feel your pain. Never had DiCarlo's but I bet it's delish!

just.say.no.

Yeah Pens!! Make that a Fiori's pizza and I second this! :)

this gif is simply incredible.

People like this make me sad. Imagine going through the world and actually believing these things about life/women/otherpeople. How depressing.

hahahaha I lol'ed to this. :)

I mean, I get that, but I've had a lot of marathon sex with men wearing condoms and have never experienced friction from the condom. Of course porn is different, and women may not be able to stay as wet, but that's what lube is for.

Exactly. It's a really smart way of shutting people down who disagree.

"I cannot believe how utterly entranced our society, American society, is by guns."

Even when I have shopping bags, tho, they either go on my lap or under my legs. I don't think I've ever sat with my legs splayed like that because of shopping bags.

holy shit. how did I miss that?! words are failing me.

omg that video....can't find the words...

First of all, I'm not the only woman who wasn't offended. And even if I was, you and literally a handful of other commenters on a Jezebel thread are not the powers that be. I'm quite familiar with mansplaining, thanks, and this guy didn't do that in the slightest. However, I'm actually finding your response to me…

Yeah the album is amazing!

Aaah I didn't know that!! How are the extra songs?

It didn't offend me, and I'm a member of this marginalized group. He speculated and said he had a theory, and his theory was spot on. You took offense to this, but he didn't incite it.

There is nothing wrong with hypothesizing what is going through someone else's mind, whether they be black, woman, bi, etc. In fact, that's a GOOD thing! Wonder about it, yes! Stay curious about the effects of that interaction you saw. What must that have been like for that person? Then go suss it out with reliable…