Have an honest conversation with your husband. Does he know you’re not orgasming? If he doesn’t, he should, and if that doesn’t bother him, he needs to step up his game! Your lover and partner should want you to be enjoying yourself during sex, not just going along with it for his sake.

ROCK IT (rocket?), GIRL. I am 45 and I’d wear the hell out of that. Or would if it had cap sleeves.

I’m 36 and I bought this dress.

I spent the whole day at our local natural history museum. Tonight there was a fundraiser for a Democratic congressional candidate in a district where a dem hasn’t held the seat in 150 and a serious candidate hadn’t been on the ballot in a long time. He’s a really good strong candidate. I’m not exactly hopeful but I’m…

Craft Thread!

Well I had a baby ten minutes before Monday was over. The placenta decided to rip itself away from my uterus in some sort of attempt to kill us both. That was the least fun I’ve ever had, but fortunately my intuition brought me to the hospital an hour earlier.

I was waiting for SNS to post this, but it’s relevant enough to post here. A few days ago I stopped over at my oldest friend’s house to have some drinks since I had a random day off. I’ve been friends with him for 20 years. He has been married for 10 years so I know his wife very well too. They started having an…

blessings to kate beaton

and you can see their ankles......gasp....clutch pearls.

“These floozies and their... velocipedes!”

“Oh those fucking Edwardians- don’t get me started” they’d say, twirling their parasols in self righteous disgust

I can’t believe people would rather shit indoors than eat food.

It’s not just about sex workers! Don’t forget their johns! Why does nobody think about the mennnn! /s

I would very much like to have a clear answer to the following: if the argument is that it is too difficult to isolate sex trafficking activities from other consensual sex work, is it Jezebel’s position that therefore we preference consensual sex work over victims of online sexual trafficking? Because, to be really…

I’m more okay with this than you probably want me to be... but after seeing how bad the sex trafficking has become... I wish there were some stats on how much trafficking occurs via craigslist and similar sites vs dark web or other methods

I don’t really believe that ‘consensual sex workers’ is a thing. Give me a society where a living wage is available to women on the low end of the socioeconomic spectrum, where health care and child care are available, and where rape and sexual assault are taken seriously and prosecuted. Then tell me that women who…

Badly. Very very badly.

archaeologist ≠ paleontologist 

Uhh, Retallack isn’t an archaeologist. Archaeologists deal with evidence of human activity. He’s a geologist and paleontologist. These are different fields.

I found a rabbit skull in the woods behind my apt last Sunday.